"Who else wants their child
to have a more
respectful,
more co-operative attitude?"
Dear Fellow Parent
If you're like me, you want a warm, loving and respectful relationship with your children.
But every now and again there's some source of friction and the family atmosphere is poisoned momentarily - or even for hours after the event.
If you'd like to ensure your child can be trusted to behave well under any circumstances, read on.
You may have tried modern "control techniques" only to find they create long term, underlying resentments that ultimately leave you more distant from your children than ever - or leave your child feeling confused and hurt and cause you to bottle-up anger that you're afraid will one day just cause you to explode!
You simply don’t know who or what to believe anymore.
All you want is for the arguments and answering-back to stop, and you look back wistfully to previous generations when it all seemed so much simpler!
You know as well as I do the horror stories (or even through your own direct experience) about out of control kids - openly defiant of their parents, disrespectful of authority, in a word "unmanageable". It makes us all deeply uncomfortable and concerned for the future.
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Many
parents wish to avoid confrontation at all costs and so attempt to
manage their child by various tricks and half-truths. The
child can not help perceiving that the parent does not speak and look
as if what they are saying is actually true. A parent can not, after all, tell their child what they know to be not true with that bold and confident air necessary to carry full conviction to the child’s mind. A kind of guilty feeling betrays them, and the child does not really and fully believe what they say. Children habitually managed on these principles soon learn to be extremely distrustful and suspicious. |
| Criticizing a child's unacceptable behavior and responding with a punishment is a common occurrence in homes up and down the country. Unfortunately, it's one of the least effective ways to communicate to children what we expect of them and sets the scene for escalating conflict. |
I used to worry about my kids just as much as you worry about yours. And I was just as disappointed and embarrassed as any parent might feel when my children caused a scene or let me down in public.
But not any more. Now, I have a confidence in them that I never thought would be possible. I can trust them to do the right thing, to be polite and well mannered and to be honest with me whatever has happened.
So, what changed?
Quite simply, the rediscovery and adaptation of generations-old wisdom concerning establishing authority and ensuring your child wants to think well of himself - and for you to think well of him also.
These are the fundamentals in the parent-child relationship that have been lost to modern families but are even more important and valuable now than when they were accepted as the norm in the "good old days":
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Now, you don't have to be seen as a strict authority figure or killjoy to use these methods, which teach you everything you need to know to instill in your children the obedience and respect you deserve. (The obedience and respect which many modern parents seem to despair of ever having.)
One of the beauties of this system is that it can be used for children of all ages, no matter how ingrained their bad behavior seems to have become. It would be fair to say that it will be easiest to use (and most fun) with the younger children, but even your teenagers will be profoundly affected when you begin to use these techniques.
Thousands of years of hard-wired psychology hasn't been erased by a single generation of computer games and TV. This classic text explains how the immature mind works - and how you can nurture your child in a way that generates co-operation and good behavior.I want to share this information with you because I know it can make a big difference - not just to how your children see themselves in the world - but also to how you relate to your children on a very personal level.
These are time proven psychological tools which worked not only in our grandparents time but also for their parents - these methods are timeless because psychology doesn't change.
Because many modern children have less contact with their parents than in previous generations, they are more influenced by their peers - not always for the better, it has to be said.
That's one of the reasons that these techniques are more important now than ever before. You have less time to interact with your children so you need to be sure that the limited time available counts as much as possible - not to "train" your children, but to enjoy them. First, you just need to realize that
"Yes! You can stop the arguments and bickering - even if your kids seem totally out of control!"
If you're a parent who thinks "NOTHING works for my kids - they are real demons and I can't wait till they go to college and get off my hands!" this information is essential to you changing your viewpoint and beginning a brand new relationship based on trust and understanding.
I know that children - anyone's children - can seem obnoxious at times. But really, they aren't lost yet. There is still time to nurture them, encourage them - and most of all, ENJOY them. Instead of repeating the failed attempts at cajoling, demanding or bullying your children to behave as you want, wouldn't you agree its time for a different approach? Its crazy to expect different results from the same techniques that have let you down again and again in the past.
Truth is, your children will be gone away soon enough to live their own lives - don't you want to ensure that they are always keen to come home at vacation time to spend some quality "grown up" time with their parents? Now is the time to lay the foundations for a mature relationship with them - not based on duty and obligation, but on genuine respect flowing both ways. Give them the chance to make you proud of them and watch them seize it with both hands.
If you're a parent who sometimes is glad of the chance to be away from your kids - because you can feel so irritated when you're around them - then you'll find this hard to believe. But you can look forward to a future of mutual respect and understanding between you and your children if only you discover these techniques and apply them - even as short a period of a fortnight using these methods can produce profound, long term improvements in the quality of the relationships in your home.
Just think how you would feel
if you knew how to easily get your children
to cooperate with you at home or in public – without any fuss or
delay! Suppose you could simply say
“chores” and know the children will comply
immediately – at the first time of asking. Imagine… no questioning
or excuses – the children automatically do the exact thing
you ask of them. Sounds too good to be true? Well, it isn’t if you
have the right relationship with them. Think about it. A
parent’s unquestioned authority is the single most powerful
factor your children need to become more contented and less fractious.
Simply put, a family without arguments, rows and quarrelling is a joy
to be around. But creating that happy,
contented atmosphere proves impossible for many families It could take you so long to
figure out how each of your children responds to the new-fangled, short
term training strategies out there that their childhood slips away
without you having a chance to simply enjoy that special time. But instead of knocking
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children that will ensure they constantly want to please you by
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